What Makes Butt Plug Popular in BDSM Role Play?
From special love toys that increase your anal pleasure the more. Since you have clicked on this article, you are in any case curious! Do you want to experiment with anal sex toys? Read these tips soon!
Before you try: 4 tips
There are a number of points that you have to take into account if you are going to use toys anally.
- Lubricant is your biggest friend
First you have to use a lot of lubricant – just like with ‘normal’ anal sex. Unlike your vagina, your anus does not make fluid. This spot is of course not meant to put a toy or a penis in it. Make sure that you have enough lubricant. For example, you have special silicone lubricant for anal sex. This would ‘stun things’ a bit, so you can enjoy more.
- Not too creative
Secondly, you may only put toys in your buttocks that are intended for that purpose. Popular sex toy shops offers 9 Butt plugs with tails that will up your role playing game. The shape runs outwards at the end, so that the toy does not pop in. Yes that is possible! And then you lost it. Some Loveplugs anal sex toys have a ring at the end that allows you to hold it properly and easily.
- Hygiene
Put flat it remains your rectum. Hygienic work is therefore important. Make sure that you always clean toys before and after use with a special toy cleaner. Go from anus to vagina or to oral. A word: Poop bacteria. That just requires problems. From vaginal to anal or from oral to anal is possible. Have you not finished after anal play? Let him wear a condom during anal and take it off before you continue. Are you afraid of too much ‘junk’? Put a hand corner down.
- Preparation
Fourth, the ‘preparation rules’ apply to anal sex with your lover, even if you use a toy. So: make sure you are excited, relax enough, have emptied your intestines.
- Butt plug
The butt plug is soon labeled as ‘ordi’, but if you are not afraid of occasional anal sex, even in anal sex during pregnancy, a butt plug is something you really should try. You can use it for two reasons. Reason 1: for extra anal stimulation during solo sex. Reason 2: to make your anus a bit wider in preparation for anal.
The plugs are available in all types, sizes, shapes, materials, and colors. Whether or not vibrating. Smooth or with bobbles as beginners you can best go for a standard. A set with a number of different sizes is useful to start with. So you can experiment a bit. If anal play is nothing new for you, you can buy some advanced plug. Make sure you do not buy a butt plug that was made especially for men. You can recognize these by a curve (similar to G-spot vibrator for the woman). The plugs are special to stimulate the P-spot, aka prostate, of the man.
Anal beads
You also have anal beads (or anal beads) in all sorts of forms from small to larger beads or one consistent size. Some toys go up to 15 beads, but others only consist of two beads. There is something for everyone again. If you are going to use anal beads for the first time, it is best to start with one that is relatively small, contains little and small balls. Experiment with different versions and discover what you like best. The first time anal sex is super exciting. If your backyard is shaken for the first time, you better be well prepared. How do you prepare, what are the best positions and how do you get an orgasm? Experts will tell you everything!
Preparation is key
Porn gives the false illusion that a dick can just slide hoppa into your back door. Nope! Although anal sex can be very good for many women (and men), your back is not made for sex. In contrast to your vagina, the anus does not cause moisture by itself. Put a lot on your shopping list: XL tube of silicone lubricant. Read here which lubricant you should have.
Timing is everything
One of the biggest fears of women around anal is that afterwards you have to defecate or worse: that poo stays on his penis. Fortunately, this almost never happens. But then you have to make it fur. Make sure your intestines are empty. About an hour after you have sent a big message, it is safe to start with the sex. Then you have to lock the back door.
Anal does not hurt
If it does hurt, it means that your preparation is not correct. You are too tense, your sphincter is still too tense and you have not used enough liters of lubricant. Again, buy a lot! Besides, it’s a great oral sex alternative.
You have to be very excited
Anal is not something you do ‘in between’. As mentioned before, preparation is needed. It can only be nice and horny if you are very excited and sexually inspired. So never go ‘in Greek’ to please someone else. And so ensure long foreplay. Without getting ready! Because then your muscles will tighten again.
Anal requires adjusted positions
Is it there? Top! But wild positions are – especially at your first time anal – out of the question. First, allow yourself to get used to the feeling and focus on relaxing. Keep it in mild positions especially if it is your first time. Cowgirl is only for advanced students. But missionary and spoon are nice to start with.
You can cum through anal sex
Yes! What keeps many women from trying to go anal is the idea that anal sex cannot be good at all. “There is no clitoris?” But certainly! The clitoris reaches much further than the button that you see on the outside. The largest part runs around your vagina and anus. That is why going anally can be very tasty. Do you really want an intense orgasm? Combine anal sex with a different kind of stimulation. For example, use a vibrator.
Do not go from A to V
We do not want to ruin the whole concept of anal sex, but be aware that your anus remains a source of bacteria. From Vagina to Anus is possible, but from anal sex to vaginal sex is an absolute no go! On the penis, bacteria can be taken to your vagina and you will regret it. Do you want to end up with vaginal sex? Then use a condom during anal sex. Do this if you continue to the V.
